Just as promised.
Follow our step-by-step breakdowns
to see how we get her number.
- Conversation -
Sometimes conversations don't go your way, or aren't easy - and a lot of guys give up.
Either they run out of things to say, she's not playing along, or they just don't know how to get her to engage in conversation.
Instead of thinking of a conversation like fast food meal - think of it more like a 5 course dinner. Take your time, and every now and again, switch from the appetizer to the main course (stop bullshitting with small talk, and get real.)
This case study focuses on a girl that I would consider extremely attractive (and fit), which means I’m going to push a bit harder to make sure we meet up in person. We’ll see some attempts that failed and finally one that worked.
- Conclusion -
We met up at the first venue in separate cars, and she met me at the table I had snagged. I had already ordered a beer since I was early so she asked to taste it.
This shows that she’s comfortable.
She then ordered her own beer, and we sat and continued conversations we had started during the week - including swearing, sustainable living, pet peeves, relationships.
We made a deal to be completely unfiltered (fearlessly authentic) and not hold back anything that might freak each other out. It made for a fun chat. We walked from there to another cocktail bar for a drink.
We then got a taxi to the initial venue that I had wanted to go to for another drink and ended up talking and kissing a bit. During the conversation she interrupted me and said “You know you’re coming over later right?” To which I replied - “Why wait?” and proceeded to physically pick her up and carry her out of the venue.
We got a taxi back to her place and I asked for the ‘grand tour’ which consisted of me walking directly into her bedroom and pulling her onto the bed. A few hours later I headed home, and stopped to get some cheeseburgers because I was hungry after all the ‘action’ in her bedroom.