Today's Q&A: "I liked all the girls on Tinder, yet NONE like me back. Why?" We'll break down exactly why you're not getting any matches despite all the swipes.
There are 2 reasons this is probably happening - plus we spell out advice to make immediate changes. Changes that WILL get you matches no matter who you are, or what you look like.
Q: I liked all the girls on Tinder, yet NONE liked me back. Why?
Your Tinder Profile Isn't Optimized.
Having a well-constructed Tinder profile picture is the most crucial element for a man on Tinder. Women will only see you for a fraction of a second, and it’s your job to project the best version of yourself within that split second.
- Is your photo taken indoors with poor lighting?
- Can she see you clearly in the photo?
- Is the photo an awkward selfie?
These are just a few questions you should ask yourself. A professional, high-quality profile picture can mean the difference between no matches or a new date every day. Here’s a video that will help you make a solid Profile picture.
You are Swiping Right too much.
Tinder has an algorithm called Elo. While we don’t know exactly what goes into it, but we do know that Tinder punishes accounts that always swipe right on every match.
This makes sense. If you always swipe right, you are flagged as a fake account, and thus Tinder has less incentive to match you with women who have the highest response rates. You’re shooting yourself in the foot before you even start.
Your best bet? Delete your account (refresh your algorithm), get your profile photo fixed, and only swipe right on the women that you’re genuinely interested in.
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